From 86fd39fd1905e94510c9db1ffb0ba8bdd1cfa857 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001 From: Morgan Date: Thu, 14 Oct 2021 13:38:17 +0200 Subject: [PATCH] Communication tips --- OHSHIT.md | 8 +++++++- 1 file changed, 7 insertions(+), 1 deletion(-) diff --git a/OHSHIT.md b/OHSHIT.md index d7869f5..befa9cc 100644 --- a/OHSHIT.md +++ b/OHSHIT.md @@ -8,10 +8,16 @@ As an imperfect creature, I commit mistakes, and I also try to avoid them. Here * Always double check your texts via grammer checking tool before sending important communication. * Always double check the message you are answering to, before making conclusions or reacting in a hurry. * Always double check the spelling of the name of whoever you discuss with before mentioning them so you don't offend them. -* Double check your sources. +* Always re-read everything you're about to send +* Don't misinterpret other's emotions and feelings based on your own mood +* Stay factual don't jump to conclusions +* Double check your sources. Mention your references when quoting a number or text or reusing some idea / work / conclusion. * Keep it simple. * First say thank you when people are trying to help you, ask you something, or suggest you something. People take from their limited time for you, don't neglect that. * Say when you're new to something or lack knowledge. Show your weaknesses and stay humble. Sometimes it can really makes a world of difference and even bring you opportunities / gifts. E.g : some shops will give you some extra for your first visit, especially if your toddler is cute and with you :-) +* Pause and pace your speech +* Maintain good posture +* Be clear about what you ask, and give context. # Helping * Don't propose solutions/help too early especially if not asked. Many people prefer also to learn and solve problems by themselves.